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Loyalty Tests

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Loyalty tests are a social trend where individuals seek to verify the fidelity of their partners through orchestrated interactions, often conducted by third parties.[1] This practice has become increasingly popular on social media platforms like TikTok, with various individuals and services offering to "test" the loyalty of a partner. The primary goal is to observe how a partner responds to advances from an unknown individual, often referred to as a "checker."[2]

Background and Development

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The practice of testing a partner's loyalty is not a new concept, but it has evolved significantly with the advent of digital communication. Traditionally, people would create situations to observe their partner’s behavior, but the rise of social media has transformed these tests into more structured and widely accessible activities.[3]

The trend gained momentum on platforms like TikTok during the early 2020s. Videos depicting loyalty tests, where individuals set up scenarios for their partners to interact with strangers, became viral. These clips often highlighted either the partner’s loyalty or their inclination to engage in flirtatious or deceptive behavior.[4]

Procedure

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Loyalty tests usually involve hiring a third party, known as a "checker," who interacts with the partner through social media or other online platforms. The checker follows guidelines provided by the person initiating the test, which might include engaging in light conversation or flirting to see how the partner reacts.[5]

Typical Steps in a Loyalty Test

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  • Selecting a Checker: Clients choose a checker based on criteria such as appearance, age, and style of communication.
  • Scenario Setup: The client details how they want the checker to engage with their partner, specifying the level of interaction desired.[6]
  • Test Execution: The checker contacts the partner and follows the agreed plan.
  • Feedback and Evidence: The checker reports back with findings, often including screenshots of conversations.[7]

Key Figures

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One notable platform that facilitates loyalty tests is Lazo. It connects users with professional checkers who interact with partners online. The service has been discussed in various media outlets, highlighting the growing interest and the ethical debates surrounding this practice.[8][9]

Influence of Social Media

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Several TikTok influencers have popularized the concept by sharing loyalty test stories with their audiences. Their content has contributed to the trend’s visibility and encouraged others to explore this method in their own relationships.[10]

Debates and Ethical Concerns

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Loyalty tests have sparked discussions regarding their ethical implications. Critics argue that these tests can be invasive and manipulative, potentially undermining trust and privacy. They raise concerns about the morality of conducting such tests without the partner’s knowledge.[11]

On the other hand, supporters suggest that loyalty tests can provide insight into a relationship’s dynamics, helping individuals make more informed decisions.[12] This divergence of opinions has made the topic both widely debated and controversial.[13]

Impact on Relationships

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Loyalty tests have influenced perceptions of trust and fidelity in modern relationships. They have prompted discussions about transparency and the boundaries of privacy. While some view these tests as a tool for reassurance, others see them as a breach of trust that could damage the foundations of a relationship.[14][15]

References

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  1. ^ "Would Your Partner Cheat? These 'Testers' Will Give You an Answer". The New York Times. Retrieved 28 August 2023.
  2. ^ Bote, Joshua (15 August 2024). "Loyalty tests have transformed from TikTok novelty to girlboss gig work". Gazetteer. Retrieved 15 August 2024.
  3. ^ McPhillips, Kells (4 July 2022). "Wanting a 'Loyalty Check' Is a Relationship-Health Red Flag—Here's Why". wellandgood. Retrieved 4 July 2022.
  4. ^ "People pay girls like Trinity to catch their partners cheating, but it's not making our relationships stronger". 9honey. 14 August 2024.
  5. ^ Hull, Alyshia. "Girlfriends pay me to conduct loyalty tests via Instagram DMs. It's a lucrative gig, and most boyfriends fail". Business Insider. Retrieved 2 June 2024.
  6. ^ Hull, Alyshia. "Girlfriends pay me to conduct loyalty tests via Instagram DMs. It's a lucrative gig, and most boyfriends fail". Business Insider. Retrieved 2 June 2024.
  7. ^ Hull, Alyshia. "Girlfriends pay me to conduct loyalty tests via Instagram DMs. It's a lucrative gig, and most boyfriends fail". Business Insider. Retrieved 2 June 2024.
  8. ^ Bote, Joshua (15 August 2024). "Loyalty tests have transformed from TikTok novelty to girlboss gig work". Gazetteer. Retrieved 15 August 2024.
  9. ^ "People pay girls like Trinity to catch their partners cheating, but it's not making our relationships stronger". 9honey. 14 August 2024.
  10. ^ Tridimas, Bea (September 2021). "I Make £1,500 a Week Catching Cheating Girlfriends on TikTok". VICE. Retrieved 1 September 2021.
  11. ^ McPhillips, Kells (4 July 2022). "Wanting a 'Loyalty Check' Is a Relationship-Health Red Flag—Here's Why". wellandgood. Retrieved 4 July 2022.
  12. ^ Trid, Bea (September 2021). "I Make £1,500 a Week Catching Cheating Girlfriends on TikTok". VICE. Retrieved 1 September 2021.
  13. ^ "People pay girls like Trinity to catch their partners cheating, but it's not making our relationships stronger". 9honey. 14 August 2024.
  14. ^ Bote, Joshua (15 August 2024). "Loyalty tests have transformed from TikTok novelty to girlboss gig work". Gazetteer. Retrieved 15 August 2024.
  15. ^ McPhillips, Kells (4 July 2022). "Wanting a 'Loyalty Check' Is a Relationship-Health Red Flag—Here's Why". wellandgood. Retrieved 4 July 2022.

See also

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