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Researchers have determined that romantic love is a complex emotion which can be divided into either passionate or companionate forms.[44] Berscheid and Walster (1978[45]) and Hatfield (1988[46]) found that these two forms can co-exist, either simultaneously or intermittently. Passionate love is the arousal-driven emotion which often gives people extreme feelings of happiness, and can also give people feelings of anguish. Companionate love is the form which creates a steadfast bond between two people, and gives people feelings of peace. Scientists have described the stage of passionate love as "being on cocaine," since during that stage the brain releases the same neurotransmitter, dopamine, as when cocaine is being used. [1] It is also estimated that passionate love lasts for about twelve to eighteen months. [2] Psychologist, Robert Firestone, has a theory of the fantasy bond, which is what is mostly created after the passionate love has faded. A couple may start to feel really comfortable with each other to the point that they see each other as simply companions or protectors, but yet think that they are still in love with each other. [3] The results to the fantasy bond is the leading to companionate love.

Hendrick and Hendrick (1995[47]) studied college students who were in the early stages of a relationship and found that almost half reported that their significant other was their closest friend, providing evidence that both passionate and companionate love exist in new relationships. Conversely, in a study of long-term marriages, researchers (Contreras, Hendrick, and Hendrick, 1996[48]) found that couples endorsed measures of both companionate love and passionate love and that passionate love was the strongest predictor of marital satisfaction, showing that both types of love can endure throughout the years.

  1. ^ Ansari, Aziz; Klinenberg, Eric (2015). Modern Romance. New York: Penguin Press. p. 214. ISBN 9781594206276.
  2. ^ Ansari, Aziz; Klinenberg, Eric (2015). Modern Romance. New York: Penguin Press. p. 215. ISBN 9781594206276.
  3. ^ Firestone, Robert. "The Fantasy Bond: A substitute for a truly loving relationship". PSYCHALIVE. Retrieved 14 April 2016.