I'm the guy that you think of as an afterthought. Hence, "I met Joe, Moe and Flo at the bus station ... oh, and Matt" is a common form. Thus, it seems to make sense that I am "and Matt".
I try to adopt the "if I won't do it right, I won't do it at all" attitude. So if I'm not living up to it, let me know. Otherwise, I may take awhile to do something, but that's in order for it to be the best I can make it.