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Marriages can be "dissolved", but those fools who rush in can't. Not lawfully, anyway. Therefore and unless I'm missing something (which I can), the infobox note about her former spouse should go with what I think "div." normally means. InedibleHulk (talk) 20:31, 16 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
We have an article Dissolution (law), which I assume covers to marriage in the UK, but it's not very conclusive. In England and Wales the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 (no fault divorce) came into effect only on 6 April 2022. Before then, I think a period of two years' separation was required before a marriage could be dissolved without any attribution of fault. But I think the resulting marital status is the same i.e. "divorced". But I am not an expert in these things. Of course, even Who's Who can make mistakes. Martinevans123 (talk) 20:53, 16 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
(Until the second edit conflict) I think you're missing my point. Whether a marriage (or any ostensibly binding agreement) is dissolved, annulled or terminated, the undersigned parties aren't. That's who this infobox is talking about, not what (the divorced Howard Nelson, who remained undissolved). InedibleHulk (talk) 21:06, 16 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Yes ok, so the marriage ended because of divorce not because someone died or separated. So we could change the text to: "They had one son and one daughter before they divorced in 2010", even though the source doesn't actually say that. Martinevans123 (talk) 21:11, 16 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Her bio at Amazon says this: "I married Howard Nelson in 1965 (marriage dissolved 2010), and we had two children, Lizzie (1972) and Billy (1974). Since the births of my five grandchildren, Eli (2000), Ruth (2002), Martha (2006), Dorie (2008), and John Paul (2018), I have involved myself in each and all of their lives." So maybe some detail is warranted. Martinevans123 (talk) 10:07, 17 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Are you suggesting we enumerate/name their grandchildren, footnote this beside Who's Who to vouch for their children's names or something else entirely? InedibleHulk (talk) 10:37, 17 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I'm suggesting, given the importance of her family to Nelson, that it might be appropriate to retain the children's first names and to say that she had five grandchildren. Using a footnote might be acceptable. But also note that she herself calls the marriage "dissolved"? Martinevans123 (talk) 12:50, 17 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sounds good to me. Until the last sentence, anyway. When two people are "divorced", their marriage is "dissolved"; it's not an either/or thing, just depends on the subject in question. InedibleHulk (talk) 20:08, 17 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Indeed, I'm not advocating "...a son named Billy and a daughter named Lizzie before dissolving in 2010". Agree it's not necessarily either/or. Just reiterating that her children say "divorced", while Who's Who and Nelson herself say "dissolved". Problem is, we don't know why. Is that standard style in Who's Who? Or just the biographer's choice. Happy to leave as is for now. Hardly a huge issue. Martinevans123 (talk) 20:18, 17 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]