Talk:Ballbusting

Why is "Citation needed" next to where it says in the article that it hurts to be hit in the groin? Most people would agree it is painful. Would you not agree? --81.155.234.74 15:37, 5 July 2006 (UTC) --[reply]

Can anyone track down the newspaper report of an unusual case of a conman who managed to persuade a number of complete strangers to kick him in the groin? He would approach women with an elaborate and superficially plausible story that persuaded them, step by step, into thinking that kicking him was a quite sensible and reasonable thing to do. -- Karada 12:44, 14 March 2006 (UTC)[reply]

A Point About This Article

In your article there is a comment suggesting that men who participate in this fetish have a diminished capacity to feel pain when hit in the groin. This is not necessarily true. Men who are "turned on" by women hurting their testicles actually associate the specific feeling of pain as a specific or unique feeling of pleasure - hence the desire for such an unorthodox means of sexual satisfaction or "kink". Each male who enjoys this unique sensation or pleasure may vary in the level of pain they can endure. Most maintain control over the degree of pain received by their partner - but as with any fetish or pleasure seeking method there are some who like to indulge in extremes.

As to the "psychology" of the fetish, the most popular expression I've heard is that men who enjoy "ball busting", either by watching or actually being kicked, is that they enjoy the sense of vulnerability to their partner. The kink or appeal of the idea of a man being hurt in his most vulnerable place by a sexy woman is an incredible turn on for men who are into this. Just to hear a girl talk about kicking a guy in the balls arouses them.