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Bengali Hindu wedding

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Bengali Hindu wedding (Bengali: বাঙালি হিন্দু বিবাহ) refers to the traditional Bengali cultural wedding,[1] usually with Hindu rites and rituals native to the Bengal region of Indian subcontinent which has been practiced through centuries.

Gaye-Holud ceremony of Bengali groom

Pre-wedding rituals

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Gaye Holud

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Main article: Gaye Holud

Gaye Holud (Bengali: গায়ে হলুদ), meaning "applying turmeric to the body," is a traditional Bengali pre-wedding ritual where the groom's family, without the groom, visits the bride’s house on the morning of the ceremony to celebrate and perform the turmeric function. Both the bride's and groom's families apply turmeric paste during their respective Gaye Holud ceremonies on the wedding day. This tradition symbolizes purification and marks the beginning of their new journey together.[2][3][4][5]

Main wedding rituals

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Mala Badal - Bengali Hindu Wedding

Mala badal

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Main article: Mala badal

Mala Badal (Bengali: মালা বদল) is a significant ritual in traditional Bengali weddings, where the bride and groom exchange flower garlands. This ceremony traditionally marks the first time the bride and groom see each other, reflecting the age-old custom of keeping the couple apart until the wedding. The Mala Badal not only symbolizes their acceptance of one another but also serves as a beautiful moment of connection during the wedding ceremony.[6][7][8]

Khoi Porano in Bengali Wedding.

Saat Paake Ghora

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See also: Saptapadi

Saat Paake Ghora, also known as Saat Paak, is a crucial ritual in a traditional Bengali wedding, symbolizing the bond between the bride and groom. The ritual begins with the bride, seated on a low wooden stool called pidi, being gently lifted by her brothers and taken around the groom in seven complete circles. This act signifies the couple becoming securely intertwined with each other, reflecting their commitment to each other for life.[9][10] In the Agni ritual, the couple takes seven rounds around the sacred fire (Yagna), reaffirming their vows. Each circle represents a promise for a prosperous and harmonious life together. The ritual is an important moment in the wedding ceremony, representing the couple’s joint commitment and unity as they embark on their shared journey through life.[11][12]

Khoi Porano

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Khoi Porano is an important ritual in a traditional Bengali wedding, symbolizing prosperity and unity. After completing Sapta-Padi, the bride’s brother places khoi (puffed rice) in her hands. The groom, standing behind her, holds her hands as they extend their arms forward and offer the khoi into the sacred fire (Yagna). This act signifies their shared commitment to a harmonious married life. The burning of khoi represents the couple’s willingness to face life’s challenges together. It also highlights the bride’s family’s blessings for her new journey.[13][14]

Sindoor Daan

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Sindoor Daan in Bengali Wedding.

Sindoor Daan is a significant ritual in a traditional Bengali wedding, marking the official union of the bride and groom. During this ceremony at the Chadnatala (wedding altar), the groom applies sindoor (vermilion) to the bride’s hair parting using a konke (traditional rice measuring utensil), signifying her transition into married life. He then places a Lajja-Bostro, a new saree from his family, over her head as a gesture of acceptance and protection. This ritual marks the conclusion of the wedding, establishing their bond as husband and wife. The sindoor serves as a lifelong symbol of commitment, respect, and marital devotion in Bengali tradition.[15][16]

Post-wedding rituals

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Bou Boron- A new bride stands on a flat plate containing a mixture of alta (lac dye) and milk.

Bou Boron

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Main article: Bodhu Boron

Upon the bride and groom's arrival at the groom's house, the Bodhu-Boron (or Bou-Baran) ceremony is performed to warmly welcome them. The women involved in the ritual step outside the door, where one of them pours water from a brass pitcher (kolshi) onto the ground under the car. The mother (or eldest female relative) of the groom, along with other relatives, receives the couple with warmth. The mother or senior female member of the family also boils milk in a small earthen pot (matir-hari), and the bride looks at it to symbolize prosperity and abundance in the new home. This act is part of the Dudh-Ondh-Lano ritual, where the flowing milk represents abundance, and the groom turns down the boiling milk using a betel nut cracker (janti), known as the Dudh-Ol-Tano rite.[17][18]

The bride and groom then sit on a low wooden seat (pidi), and the groom's relatives perform the Baran ceremony. The bride, holding a brass pitcher (kolshi) with water, catches a live fish (lata). Afterward, an elder woman from the groom’s family brings a flat stone plate containing a mixture of alta (lac dye) and milk. The elder woman holds the plate under the bride's feet, and the bride steps on a white cloth, leaving her footprints imprinted in red dye and milk. This symbolizes the steps of Goddess Lakshmi, marking the arrival of prosperity and blessings into the new household.[19]

Bou Bhat

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Main article: Bou Bhat

On the evening of the Bou-Bhat ritual, the groom’s family hosts a reception to introduce the new bride to their relatives, friends, and neighbors. Guests arrive, present gifts to the bride, and enjoy a meal. The bride’s family is honored as the special guests of the occasion and arrives together in a procession known as Kone-Jatri or the bridal party. The bridal party brings a list of items for the bride, groom, and the groom’s family, known as Phul-Sajjar-Tatwa. This list includes dhotis for the elder male members, sarees for the elderly female members, food, fruits, sweets, and cosmetics such as powder, perfume, lac dye, vermilion, and flower ornaments. After the guests depart, the bride and groom share a meal with the groom's family.[20][21][22]

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  • Mehendi-clad hands- Hindu bride from Bengal
    Mehendi-clad hands- Hindu bride from Bengal
  • Fish and Sweet pot, parts of Bengali wedding
    Fish and Sweet pot, parts of Bengali wedding
  • Bengali Marriage Rituals
    Bengali Marriage Rituals
  • Konnadan- Bengali Marriage Rituals
    Konnadan- Bengali Marriage Rituals
  • Pre-marriage rituals of a Bengali wedding in India
    Pre-marriage rituals of a Bengali wedding in India

There are other rituals that may vary from places and circumstances but the basic is same connection of soul through all these acts which flourishes the conjugal life.[23]

See also

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References

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  1. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals – A Traditional Bengali Marriage Ceremony". hinduism.about.com. Archived from the original on 26 November 2016. Retrieved 21 November 2008.
  2. ^ "SAARC-Culture-Journal-Vol-9-2023.pdf" (PDF).
  3. ^ Alam, S. M. Nazmul; Naser, M. Niamul (1 January 2020). "Chapter 2 - Role of traditional foods of Bangladesh in reaching-out of nutrition". Nutritional and Health Aspects of Food in South Asian Countries. Academic Press. pp. 217–235.
  4. ^ Gupta, Om (April 2006). Encyclopaedia of India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. Gyan Publishing House. p. 769. ISBN 978-81-8205-389-2.
  5. ^ "Nature and causes of conflict regarding the culture of Bangladesh and European Union" (PDF).
  6. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals - Hinduism". web.archive.org. 26 November 2016.
  7. ^ "SAARC-Culture-Journal-Vol-9-2023.pdf" (PDF).
  8. ^ Thakur, Dr Nabin; Roy, Dr Ritendra; Ghosh, Dr Ajoy; Molla, Dr Sabiruddin (16 May 2024). "Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals". Educational Administration: Theory and Practice. pp. 5670–5681. doi:10.53555/kuey.v30i5.3393.
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  10. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  11. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals - Hinduism". web.archive.org. 26 November 2016.
  12. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  13. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals - Hinduism". web.archive.org. 26 November 2016.
  14. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  15. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals - Hinduism". web.archive.org. 26 November 2016.
  16. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  17. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  18. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals - Hinduism". web.archive.org. 26 November 2016.
  19. ^ "(PDF) Beyond Belief: A Scientific Inquiry into the Myths and Looms of Hindu Rituals".
  20. ^ "A Comparative Study on Marriage Customs of Two Hindu Bengali Communities in Kolkata Metropolis of India".
  21. ^ "12 Things That Happen At A Bengali Wedding". IndiaTimes. 29 November 2015. Retrieved 2 October 2020.
  22. ^ "বাঙালির বিয়ে উৎসব".
  23. ^ "Bengali Wedding Rituals – A Traditional Bengali Marriage Ceremony". hinduism.about.com. Archived from the original on 26 November 2016. Retrieved 21 November 2008.

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