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:Please read [[Wikipedia:Talk page guidelines#Editing others' comments]]. Do NOT remove my comments. If you don't like what I post you can either discuss it like an adult or report me to one of the drama boards. Cheers. <b style="font:1.3em/1em Trebuchet MS;letter-spacing:-0.07em">[[User:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#000">nagual</b>]][[User talk:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#ABAB9D">design</b>]]</b> 21:04, 18 January 2018 (UTC) |
:Please read [[Wikipedia:Talk page guidelines#Editing others' comments]]. Do NOT remove my comments. If you don't like what I post you can either discuss it like an adult or report me to one of the drama boards. Cheers. <b style="font:1.3em/1em Trebuchet MS;letter-spacing:-0.07em">[[User:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#000">nagual</b>]][[User talk:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#ABAB9D">design</b>]]</b> 21:04, 18 January 2018 (UTC) |
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:I see that you've already been involved in a bit of [[Wikipedia:Administrators' noticeboard/Incidents#User:86.20.193.222|drama]] today, and that you took the opportunity to try and drag me into the fray, even though that discussion had nothing to do with me. In future, if you're going to try that sort of mudslinging, I suggest you follow the notification at the top of that page: "When you start a discussion about an editor, you <u>must</u> notify them on their user talk page. ''The use of ping or the notification system is [[Special:PermanentLink/723877157#Difference between a ping and a noticeboard notice|not sufficient]] for this purpose.'' You may use <code><nowiki>{{subst:ANI-notice}} ~~~~</nowiki></code> to do so." <b style="font:1.3em/1em Trebuchet MS;letter-spacing:-0.07em">[[User:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#000">nagual</b>]][[User talk:nagualdesign|<b style="color:#ABAB9D">design</b>]]</b> 21:54, 18 January 2018 (UTC) |
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Sketch-up
Thanks you for your response on the help desk. Can you please send me any links or insights as to how it works? I am a stranger to this so any help would be appreciated.--NadirAli نادر علی (talk) 00:10, 4 January 2018 (UTC)
- @NadirAli: I'm not sure I understand what you're asking, but since the you've mentioned SketchUp and the notification I received linked to an older copy of the help desk discussion (which has since been archived) you may not have noticed that I made a few more posts after that. In fact I made you your very own Ecosia userbox! See here for more details.
- Editing the userbox should be fairly straightforward, but feel free to ask me for help if you need any. Please be aware though that the image I uploaded for you, which is used in the infobox, may yet be deleted. It was added by a bot to Commons:User:Magog the Ogre/PD ineligible/2018 January 1-3. I've asked Magog the Ogre himself if he intends to delete it (see the discussion here) but I'm not really sure what's going to happen. My advice would be to carry on regardless. If the image gets deleted we can always replace it with something else. nagualdesign 00:28, 4 January 2018 (UTC)
- ...Okay, I think I've sorted that out now and the images will not be deleted. It turns out that I was responsible for flagging them accidentally in the first place! nagualdesign 03:17, 4 January 2018 (UTC)
- @NadirAli: Uh-oh.. I spoke too soon. The images are being considered for deletion. I wouldn't worry about it though. nagualdesign 03:00, 5 January 2018 (UTC)
Charming
"Or maybe I was just being charming to get you on my side": I don't think you tried to get me on your side in the picture discussion. But you apologized, showing some social grace, which gives me hope for the discussion. I have to correct a misinterpretation of Wikipedia:Canvassing, though: Whether you know if I'm partisan on a given issue is only one of a number of conditions each of which suffices. The only reason why I wrote "borderline" was because in the "Scale" criterion, you were still in the yellow range. On a practical note, I disagree with "the more the merrier": Usually I find that discussions between two reasonable people get more complicated by the addition of others, and all the people involved would be far more productive doing something else. Just think about how often people in a work environment complain that meetings keep them from their work. — Sebastian 01:57, 4 January 2018 (UTC)
- For what it's worth I really appreciate having my work constructively critiqued by well-reasoned editors like The Gnome, as I find it much more fruitful, generally, than people simply agreeing with me. That's why I genuinely welcomed any and all feedback at the RfC. I'm one of those people who thinks that the real winner of a debate is often the one that loses the argument (provided that it's dialectic) because we learn much more quickly by making mistakes. I am mindful of canvassing though, and I'll try to be more careful in future so that my intentions aren't taken the wrong way. I won't be letting The Gnome know just how much I appreciate his input until after the RfC is closed because I don't want him to think I'm trying to sweet-talk him. And I've nominated one of my images for Featured Picture status, which I'm dying to tell a certain editor about, but I won't be mentioning it to him until the voting closes. I appreciate you taking the time to post here, Sebastian, and I take your point about a good one-on-one being more constructive sometimes. Maybe I'll see you around. nagualdesign 02:26, 4 January 2018 (UTC)
- Thank you for your nice words. I very much see things the way you do. I honor that you're working on yourself, and I think Wikipedia is a great place to do that. From the little I've seen I get the impression that you might even be trying a bit too hard; so you might find the book Trying not to Try by Edward Slingerland interesting. — Sebastian 08:32, 5 January 2018 (UTC)
- Sorry for the late reply, Sebastian. I have been giving some thought to what you posted here though. I'm not sure exactly what you meant by "trying a bit too hard" but I certainly feel like I may have bitten off more than I can chew from time to time! I see it a bit like walking in the countryside; sometimes it's an uphill struggle or even a steep scramble, but there will be times and places when you can rest and recuperate, and the view from the peaks makes it all worthwhile, and the extra effort gives a feeling of accomplishment. nagualdesign 00:14, 8 January 2018 (UTC)
- No worries, as long as you use MENTION, you can take as long as you want with your replies. By "trying a bit too hard", I was thinking in the direction of the title of this section and simply meant that your replies came across as maybe a bit accommodating. With the "walk in the countryside", do you refer to contributing to Wikimedia, or to dealing with people in general? The former is a plausible simile, especially for one who works primarily on images, like you do. With people, the analogy doesn't resonate with me, since the countryside doesn't react to the path I choose, it simply is what it is. Or can one see people see in the same way, that we don't create their reactions, but simply discover them, just like we can discover a view in the countryside when we turn around a corner? I'll think about that. — Sebastian 11:04, 8 January 2018 (UTC)
- Yes, I was talking about contributing to Wikipedia and dealing with other editors, since I kind of assumed that you were too. I've been making much more of an effort at that RfC than I anticipated would be necessary, that's for sure! So you think I'm being a little too accommodating, eh? Fair point. That's actually quite flattering in a way. Thankfully I find that sort of thing comes quite easily. Although I made a joke about it I'm never deliberately 'charming', meaning I don't set out to intentionally beguile anyone (although my girlfriend says I'm terribly flirtatious). I just find it easier to be genuine, and as my mother says, manners maketh man. I used to joke with an old friend of mine that I was studying him, or what I called "evil lessons" (he knew how to be a selfish prick when he wanted to be, and it seemed to work for him). In reality I was just gently trying to show him what I saw as the error of his ways. He never learned anything much from me though, and I'm happy to say I never learned anything from him. The older I get the more I feel able to accommodate people, and it's a personal challenge to try to push myself further in that direction, but I assure you that if I'm talking to an a-hole who I'm certain I've gotten the measure of I'll segue into handing out rope (but I even do that with a smile on my face). nagualdesign 11:54, 8 January 2018 (UTC)
- If you're indeed speaking about dealing with people and possibly even changing them, then I still don't see how that fits your image of the countryside. Of course, real change in people is rare, but we affect people more than the countryside (so I thought about my question from Monday): People usually respond to us, while a quiet and considerate hiker, who takes his garbage home, may not create any effect other than accidentally stepping on an insect or disturbing a deer.
- Handing out rope was a long learning process for me. What helped me was the realization that in general we have no right to point out others' errors of their ways, as a wise man in Palestine pithily remarked 2000 years ago. Nowadays, I do that only either if I'm invited or, much more often, if I feel that someone is harming others who I care for. ("Harm" for me does not include such selfish actions as rudely refusing a favor.) On Wikipedia, that harm most often consists in confusing or otherwise encumbering readers or in keeping fellow editors from constructive work. As explained earlier, that's why I spoke up about the perceived cross-posting.
- Does your girlfriend say you're flirtatious with her or with others? If the former, good for you two! If the latter, then it can be good, too: It can enrich others' lives as long as you're not hurting or deceiving anyone. For me, the demarcation line between charming and beguiling is whether there is guile (or, more exactly, manipulation) involved. — Sebastian 10:53, 11 January 2018 (UTC)
- I'm not trying to change anybody on Wikipedia. It would be pretty futile to try, using nothing but a few typed comments here and there. All I meant is that contributing to Wikipedia and dealing with other editors is sometimes an uphill struggle. It's just a metaphor though, meaning it can be difficult, but (like walking in the countryside) it isn't always an uphill struggle and the extra effort brings its own rewards – you don't have to get hung up wondering how the rocks and the sky translate through the metaphor! In answer to your question, being a flirtatious person is not the same as (deliberately) flirting with someone. nagualdesign 20:14, 11 January 2018 (UTC)
- OK, I overstretched the metaphor. Now I see what you mean. But I have to admit, I've always had problems with that metaphor, ever since I learned that Till Eulenspiegel once said that walking downhill made him sad, because it meant he would have to go uphill again, and vice versa. More to the point: In all endeavors, we want to come out higher up, but we shun the effort of climbing. In your hiking metaphor, it's impossible to have one without the other, but in real life, it is often possible, which is at the heart of man's desire to improve his life. When I hike, I enjoy the uphill portion. You, too? And if so, does that help you enjoy the uphill part in other endeavors, as well? — Sebastian 11:51, 12 January 2018 (UTC)
The template barnstar
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For creating the Ecosia userbox. Even if it gets deleted, thank you for trying. You have gaining my respect. Well done sir.-NadirAli نادر علی (talk) 21:04, 5 January 2018 (UTC) |
- Thank you. I'm not much of a fan of userboxes these days, and when I first read your post at the help desk I didn't think it was worth making much of an effort, but having looked into it I find the ethics of Ecosia quite laudable, so I was happy to help out. I hope that someone from Google looks at Ecosia's working practices and, in the spirit of their motto, "Don't Be Evil", adopts some similar practices. They are making an effort regarding the environment at least. nagualdesign 21:51, 5 January 2018 (UTC)
- Totally my reason for wanting to create it. :-) I also don't think Google should have a sole monopoly over the Internet, although they have made the best effort to provide the best of facilities to their users. Thanks to you, it is possible.--NadirAli نادر علی (talk) 00:29, 6 January 2018 (UTC)
- PS you are free change the title of the template to your name if you wish. It was you who created it, not me. But it's entirely up to you.--NadirAli نادر علی (talk) 00:32, 6 January 2018 (UTC)
- Thanks but no thanks. If anyone wants to discuss the template they can address their questions to you. Although WP:OWNERSHIP is frowned upon you may consider it a gift. Give it a year or so then check Special:WhatLinksHere/User:NadirAli/Userbox/Ecosia to see who else is using it. nagualdesign 01:25, 6 January 2018 (UTC)
I forgot to say this at my talk page
But I would dearly love it if you uploaded a copy of your efforts at re-colorizing that image and documented whatever you did differently than I outlined in my guide. Even if you don't think you got very good results.
Right now (though not to pat myself on the back), as far as I can tell, my guide is the most comprehensive and expertise-filled tutorial on colorization on the entire internet. But (and here's how you can tell that wasn't my ego talking) it's still woefully inadequate to actually nailing the process down as a distinct school of art. So anything that can be added to it would be great. I'd love to get it to the point where I had to break it off into a couple of pages, and then try to get it copied to somewhere more visible. I've always found colorization to be very rewarding, and to produce results that can be very impressive (even though I'm far from a master of it).
So if you find any part of it that doesn't work for you, or if you come up with anything that produces better results than anything I've colorized, or if you simply notice something worth noting that I never mentioned, I'd dearly love to add it to the guide. Even if you don't come up with anything, it's possible that I or someone else (possibly Hohum) might notice an element that we feel you did better than us. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 01:20, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- I'd be happy to do that. I'll take periodic snapshots (SHIFT+CTRL+ALT+E) as I'm working and Group them, and I'll email you the finished PSD file if you like. That's assuming I can get beyond step 1! As I said, this won't be my first attempt and I've never gotten very far. Without wishing to blow smoke up Uranus, your guide is certainly the most comprehensive tutorial that I've ever read, and I've read a few. I do actually feel fairly confident that I'll get beyond step 1, thanks to your input, I just don't want to make any promises. Quibik once explained to me how he does FFT filtering but could I do it? Could I fft! nagualdesign 20:30, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- tbh; I had to look up what an fft is, even though I'd heard of fast Fourier transforms before (I didn't make the connection until after I read the fourth or fifth google result). I had no idea they were useful in image manipulation. And my day job is as a programmer. And I've co-written a peer-reviewed physics paper with plenty of maths in it. So don't you try to out-idiot me! I'm the king idiot. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 22:48, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- I'm sure I could give you a run for your money on some days! For examples of FFT filtering see File:Sabinin. St George the Hagiorite.jpg and File:Nietzsche187c.jpg, to name but two. Quibik is our resident expert when it comes to FFT filtering and continues to contribute regularly. As you can imagine, there's no better way to remove moiré patterns, and in most cases it's the only way. For more information on how he does this see the explanation he kindly provided here, and I wish you the greatest luck in trying to replicate his results – you'll need it! (By that I mean that he's highly competent, not that you're incompetent, of course! FFT filtering is Hard with a capital H.) nagualdesign 23:12, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- Well, while you're working on colorizing, I'm going to start experimenting with the steps Quibik gave you. If I get any good results, I'll document them all and share. This is a little premature, but we might possibly start a new MOS section or Wikiproject consisting of tutorials for editing images for WP. The discussion at Talk:NOR seems like it's heading to a loose consensus on how to treat this stuff policy-wise (you, me and Masem are explicitly on the same page, and I'm fairly certain one or two others who've commented are, as well). Even The Gnome's ultra-conservative ideas about image editing could prove useful if we put together something like that. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 23:53, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- Wonderful stuff – you've pretty much read my mind. I've had similar ideas over the years about penning some useful guidelines for consideration, but the thought of doing it on my own against great opposition makes me shudder. Give me another month and then I'd be happy to focus on that. I just have a few things ongoing to contend with at the moment. In the meantime I'll try to gather my thoughts. nagualdesign 00:08, 8 January 2018 (UTC)
- Well, while you're working on colorizing, I'm going to start experimenting with the steps Quibik gave you. If I get any good results, I'll document them all and share. This is a little premature, but we might possibly start a new MOS section or Wikiproject consisting of tutorials for editing images for WP. The discussion at Talk:NOR seems like it's heading to a loose consensus on how to treat this stuff policy-wise (you, me and Masem are explicitly on the same page, and I'm fairly certain one or two others who've commented are, as well). Even The Gnome's ultra-conservative ideas about image editing could prove useful if we put together something like that. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 23:53, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- I'm sure I could give you a run for your money on some days! For examples of FFT filtering see File:Sabinin. St George the Hagiorite.jpg and File:Nietzsche187c.jpg, to name but two. Quibik is our resident expert when it comes to FFT filtering and continues to contribute regularly. As you can imagine, there's no better way to remove moiré patterns, and in most cases it's the only way. For more information on how he does this see the explanation he kindly provided here, and I wish you the greatest luck in trying to replicate his results – you'll need it! (By that I mean that he's highly competent, not that you're incompetent, of course! FFT filtering is Hard with a capital H.) nagualdesign 23:12, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
- tbh; I had to look up what an fft is, even though I'd heard of fast Fourier transforms before (I didn't make the connection until after I read the fourth or fifth google result). I had no idea they were useful in image manipulation. And my day job is as a programmer. And I've co-written a peer-reviewed physics paper with plenty of maths in it. So don't you try to out-idiot me! I'm the king idiot. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 22:48, 7 January 2018 (UTC)
Doing a little searching I found a number of extant resources that we might want to consider. I've provided some of my musings here to give you some food for thought. I don't really want you to address them just yet, only to bear them in mind regarding how we might proceed, but feel free to post here anything that you'd like me to think about also:
- There are already a number of pages about policy (Wikipedia:Manual of Style/Images, Wikipedia:Image use policy, Wikipedia:Uploading images, etc.) and it may be wise to focus our efforts on producing a primary resource for this. The problem at the moment, as I see it, is that they're not very succinct or well organized. There's little point in trying to re-write the book but producing an additional guide, like Wikipedia:Images, and having it rubber-stamped and made more widely available may be helpful.
- There's already a Wikiproject – Wikipedia:WikiProject Images and Media – that links to many available resources, such as Wikipedia:How to improve image quality among many others, but it's inactive and I'm guessing it isn't widely used. We might want to consider breathing life into that, rather than starting from scratch.
- We could write an essay, or several essays, regarding image editing and related WP policies. Editing in particular, such as how-to guides on colourization, FFT filtering and the like, may be more suited to essays since they are guides rather than guidelines.
- All of the above represent my admittedly unorganized thoughts, some of which may be beyond the scope of what you had in mind. It might be wise for us to focus on simply tightening up the MOS, with the help of other experienced editors, to clarify things and provide an overview of Wikipedia's working practices, then work on a few how-to guides, tackling them one at a time.
nagualdesign 05:01, 8 January 2018 (UTC)
I lolled. Masters and Johnson were right after all. Beware the wrath of the Gagemeister. 23:30, 9 January 2018 (UTC)
- I hope that phrase springs to mind if you ever find yourself clutching a pair of maracas. nagualdesign 23:41, 9 January 2018 (UTC)
- Yes, I'll try to remember next time I'm in La Belle France. Martinevans123 (talk) 23:48, 9 January 2018 (UTC)
off tangent fishing question
Completely off topic but perhaps you might know, is there a sort of sidebar 'Random article' link for /wiki/ content? I'm sure I would find useful stuff. Thanks for your help. Gabriel syme (talk) 07:06, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- Yes, in the sidebar where it says Random page. Clicking on that link will take you to a random page (Special:Random). nagualdesign 07:09, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- My mistake, I meant specifically for interwiki content like policy and essays. Gabriel syme (talk) 07:45, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- Not that I'm aware of. Sorry. nagualdesign 07:47, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
Precious
design metaphers
Thank you for quality images such as Percival Lowell observing Venus, for teaching to improve them, for redirects, moves and precise references, for knowing "that contributing to Wikipedia and dealing with other editors is sometimes an uphill struggle", for offering tea to the department of fun, - you are an awesome Wikipedian!
--Gerda Arendt (talk) 10:40, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- That's the most specifically tailored/least generic bit of praise I think I've ever received on Wikipedia! Thank you for taking a genuine interest in my contributions and, of course, you're very welcome. nagualdesign 10:52, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
Unfit editors are still readers
I agree with User:Gerda Arendt that you are an awesome Wikipedian, as evidenced once more by the fact that you especially appreciate her specificity. I also like that you're adding some humor here. That said, please forgive me for bringing up some criticism: I just noticed your reply at the Help desk, which is humorous, but at the expense of someone who came there asking for help. Obviously that user is far from fit to be an editor, but I'd like you to see them from a different angle: The user is one of our readers, one of the people for whom were're doing this whole shebang. This reader has a problem that deserves attention: What they read counters some of their most preciously held beliefs. Many readers probably feel that way, but here we have one who took up the courage to ask about it. If we react by ridiculing them, it will only trigger a spiral of frustration, and, depending on the circumstances, even violence. (I know what I'm talking about; ask me for details.) I will be busy for the next 20 hours, maybe you'll find a better idea for a reply in the mean time. If not, I'll be happy to discuss this further with you then. — Sebastian 12:11, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- That user accused Beyond My Ken of "hate and racism", then came to the help desk asking silly questions ("who is that person?!.. is he more powerful than me?") and so got a silly answer from me. I'm a staunch anti-racist, and an equally staunch opponent of unfounded accusations of racism, but sometimes it's better just to laugh in the face of stupidity. Don't worry, someone was soon there to provide a more sensible answer. nagualdesign 12:32, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- Be very careful, humour is a weapon not tolerated here ;) - I said in an edit summary that I was amused, and four editors left Wikipedia for a year. - The prize (above) comes from the cabal of the outcasts, DYK? The wonderful potato is one of us. - I worked on Kafka which prepared me for absurdity, - it really helps. --Gerda Arendt (talk) 17:54, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- I never truly realized what it means to have (or not have) a sense of humour until I began editing Wikipedia. It isn't just about being not-so-easily amused – some people seem literally unable to sense humour in the same way that a blind person can't sense light! To quote B. A. Baracus, I pity the fools. I'm a bit concerned about our quixotic friend, too, after reading through his talk page. He may be a potato but he's also a good egg, and it'll be a sad loss if he doesn't return. The whole idea of having your sentence increased unless you apply for parole stinks, but I hope he's willing to suck it up. nagualdesign 18:25, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- I confess that I didn't watch the whole thing. Can't add him to the ones I praise here without at least looking, but I'm on vacation, really not in the mood for WP:Great Dismal Swamp. --Gerda Arendt (talk) 18:58, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- Gerda, you might just as well say the English language is not tolerated here. I wrote something in English one day and someone didn't like it. Language and humour depend on what you do with it.
Ridiculing a simple-minded person does not mark a humorous, let alone a right-minded person.— Sebastian 23:25, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- Gerda, you might just as well say the English language is not tolerated here. I wrote something in English one day and someone didn't like it. Language and humour depend on what you do with it.
- I don' ridicule a person, at least not intentionally. When a situation gets absurd, you can weep or smile, - I tend to smile. --Gerda Arendt (talk) 15:10, 17 January 2018 (UTC)
- Sorry, Gerda, I realize I was a bit too harsh, and I didn't mean you, anyway. Please disregard the last sentence. — Sebastian 15:31, 17 January 2018 (UTC)
- Yes, Nagualdesign, I've seen the accusation. Do you feel it invalidates my point? — Sebastian 23:25, 16 January 2018 (UTC)
- I'm not saying that your point was invalid, only that I have my own ideas on conduct. A week or so ago you thought I might be trying a bit too hard and being too accommodating, and I explained that if I'm talking to an a-hole who I'm certain I've gotten the measure of I'll segue into handing out rope (with a smile on my face). Well, there we have it. I'm not sure that we're talking about a "simple-minded" person though, or that being simple-minded is any excuse for behaving like an a-hole. That's not one of the people who I'm volunteering here for, but I do think that reader has a problem that deserves attention though, which is why I drew attention to it. nagualdesign 18:51, 17 January 2018 (UTC)
- You're accommodating to those you respect – there's nothing special about that. What really makes a difference is one's conduct towards those that are less fortunate, as I had hoped to show you by offering to share my experience. But it wasn't meant to be.
- Sadly, we've come around full circle. Just like I underestimated you in the beginning, I now realize I overestimated you. Arrogating credit for drawing attention to a user's problems, and even being so sure about it to emphasize that claim, just after it has been pointed out that that credit goes to the other user, is a blatant case of alternative facts that I did not expect. I now have to close the way we started, at the level of policies: Your opinion on conduct is tragically misguided: Here it is not defined by your own ideas, but by WP:CONDUCT. Calling someone (repeatedly) an "a-hole" is a gross violation of WP:Civility. Last not least, I urge you to honestly ask yourself whether your behavior at WP:HD (of all places!) follows the advice of WP:AGF to "try to the best of your ability to explain and resolve the problem". — Sebastian 23:54, 17 January 2018 (UTC)
- I never claimed to be special! I'm accommodating to almost everyone within reason, and it's up to me to decide where I draw the line. I'm not sure what you mean by "less fortunate". Stupid behaviour doesn't garner any sympathy from me, and I'm not willing to assume that someone who behaves stupidly is actually stupid, so can't help themselves. If you'd like to share your experience feel free, but I don't relish the idea of reading a story about violence to be honest. And to be clear, I wasn't trying to take credit for helping, I was making a sideways remark (admittedly not very clearly) that that reader has a problem that deserves attention – the problem being that he makes unfounded accusations and silly comments, which I drew attention to by giving a silly response. (The italics denote that there may be more than meets the eye.) That's how I roll.
- As to my conduct, I didn't call anybody an "a-hole" repeatedly, I only mentioned how I respond to people who behave like a-holes, and that there's no excuse for behaving like one. That's no more of a violation of WP:Civility than your repeatedly referring to that user as "unfit" (for editing), "simple-minded" and "less fortunate". I assure you that when I first saw the post at the help desk I did assume good faith and wanted to help, hence why I looked at the user's contributions, worked out what they were talking about and found the comment they left on Ken's talk page, at which point I no longer needed to make such assumptions.
- To be honest, Sebastian, you seem to be going from one extreme to the other, taking each comment I've left here and running with it far beyond the scope that it was intended, or reading too deeply into things. I've tried to answer your questions honestly and ultimately this is about a joke I made. It's really not worth losing your sense of humour over. nagualdesign 01:11, 18 January 2018 (UTC)
- Please note that I reverted your removal of my comment at the help desk, now that I've spotted it. Editing or removing other user's comments is against WP guidelines (see Wikipedia:Talk page guidelines#Editing others' comments). If anyone has a problem with my comments I'm open to discussion, but I don't appreciate being censored. nagualdesign 02:23, 18 January 2018 (UTC)
HD
I did this, I hope you'll understand why. If not we can talk about it. Best, 86.20.193.222 (talk) 17:49, 18 January 2018 (UTC)
"That guy can bench press" [1]
"check out #myhotwife" [2]
Not appropriate.
I don't care, but - either sort out your attitude, or bye bye. 86.20.193.222 (talk) 19:22, 18 January 2018 (UTC)
- Please read Wikipedia:Talk page guidelines#Editing others' comments. Do NOT remove my comments. If you don't like what I post you can either discuss it like an adult or report me to one of the drama boards. Cheers. nagualdesign 21:04, 18 January 2018 (UTC)
- I see that you've already been involved in a bit of drama today, and that you took the opportunity to try and drag me into the fray, even though that discussion had nothing to do with me. In future, if you're going to try that sort of mudslinging, I suggest you follow the notification at the top of that page: "When you start a discussion about an editor, you must notify them on their user talk page. The use of ping or the notification system is not sufficient for this purpose. You may use
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to do so." nagualdesign 21:54, 18 January 2018 (UTC)